degface asked: I hate when people tell me that I'm just whiny and show no initiative when I say I'm uncomfortable about random RP in cities. I put a lot of thought, time, and care into my characters and their stories, but everyone is always too busy paying attention to the "in crowd" to give my muses any mind. RP on this server is more or less a popularity contest. I prefer keeping to myself and a friend or two in RP because I trust them not to push me aside. Not everyone can be a social butterfly.